Settle in the first few minutes, use a steady routine when a question scares you, and stop a small wobble from turning into panic that costs marks.
When nerves start costing marks
Nerves are not the enemy. A little adrenaline helps you focus, and almost every student feels some before an exam.
The trouble starts when nerves turn into panic. A hard question makes your mind go blank. A shaky start leads to a misread question.
Worry about time makes you rush, and mistakes multiply. Then nerves are removing marks you could have earned.
The aim is not to feel nothing. It is to stay in control while a little nervous. Knowing your paper’s shape also helps.
Check your board’s paper structure on our qualification pages before exam day. Knowing what to expect is one of the best defences against panic.
A routine that keeps you in control
Begin every exam the same way. Read the whole paper, breathe slowly, and turn the marks into a rough time plan.
This does two useful things. It gives the first rush of adrenaline something to do.
It gets you moving, which usually breaks the nervous feeling. This is steadier than starting with the hardest question and hoping to feel brave.
During the paper, use the same routine when a question frightens you. If your mind goes blank, do not stare at the question.
Move to one you can do and make progress. The hard question often becomes clearer once the pressure is gone.
Keep your breathing slow and your pace steady, especially when the clock feels tight. Rushing is where panic does the most damage.
A worked example
Hana opens the paper and sees an unfamiliar question first. Her chest tightens and her thoughts scatter.
Without a routine, she stares at that question and cannot start. She watches the clock and gets more scared. Half her settling time is gone, and she is writing in a rush.
With a routine, Hana does not start there. She reads the whole paper, breathes, and sketches a time plan. Then she starts with a question that looks simple.
A few lines in, she is working and her breathing has slowed. When she returns to the hard question, it looks smaller. She is calmer, and something she wrote earlier gave her an idea.
The nerves were the same. The routine kept them from running the exam.
This is easier to improve with a teacher beside you. A paid one-hour trial starts from your child's own recent work.
Common mistakes
- Starting with the hardest question. An early struggle can set the mood for the whole paper.
- Staring at a blank. Move on and let it settle.
- Watching the clock too anxiously. The worry itself causes rushing and errors.
- Thinking “I will fail” after one hard question. One question is only one question.
- Having no routine. There is nothing steady to use when nerves arrive.
How to practise
Calm is built in practice, not found on the day. Sit timed papers often, so that the exam conditions stop feeling strange. Much of exam-day fear is simply unfamiliarity.
Use your opening routine every time: read, breathe, plan. Practise leaving a question that stumps you and coming back later. Practise slow breathing away from the desk too, so it is ready when you need it.
In the days before the exam, picture yourself starting the paper calmly. On the day, treat nervous energy as fuel, not as a warning.
The students who cope best are not the ones who feel nothing. They expect nerves and have a familiar first step ready.
How our teachers help
Students often get stuck because they have never practised recovering from a bad moment. In 1-to-1 lessons, our teachers run timed conditions and coach the routine and the recovery as carefully as the English itself.
A student who stays calm can use all the marks they are able to earn. See our First Language English tuition.
Try our guide to preparing a speaking topic if speaking tests worry you, and practise with the timed practice tasks. You may also like planning in five minutes.
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